What you are mixing up right now is "unit compositions" and the fact that you can take 3 heamonculi per HQ slot. The latter is something different than a unit composition (where there's a minimum and a maximum per unit).
A heamonculus is an IC. And an IC can join any unit it wants.
So, no. The heams do not need to stay together.
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